Wednesday, February 18, 2009

First accident
I am feeling ...... because......

I really can't find a word to describe what i am feeling now.
A mixture of disappointment, dissatisfaction, with a drop of relieve, plus a little bit of uncertainly.

Perhaps its the way i approach and handle the stuff.
Perhaps its the unreasonable way the other side do things
Or perhaps i know that i cannot 硬碰硬 but choose to do so in the end in order to conceal my panic.
Or simply just cos its the first time im involve in a road accident.

Try driving on a straight road and another car come banging on to you on the side.
And the next thing you know, the driver of the other car refused to show the driving license (simply because it wasnt bought out) and tried to be unreasonable.

OF cos as a person of 高尚的气质 i should first ask if the driver is alright or something along that line. But instead i choose to cover up my panic by being systematic of taking down the particulars and stuff. Come and think of it, i'm suppse to be doing that. ITs much better than screaming out or crying out loud. But i still feel i can handle the situation much better.

OF cos no one bother about the unreasonable driver, who creates new rules and path in driving. For a second I was really tempted to call the police.
The police will certainly catch people who drive around with no driver license, who goes around creating new traffic rules, who goes abt ranting endlessly and making other's night so ........ .
EVEN the kind hearted drivers who shld be long reach home by then, came back and offered to be MY witness and can't be bothered talking to the other.

I think i desperately need lawyer friends to be my legal consultant. Should i just call the police to sue the irresponsible driver to evoke the license (if there is any in the first place) and make the world a better and safer place. Perhaps this will reduce my dissonance and give me a sense of achievement.

Oh yah! SERIOUSLY no matter in what aspect, i should be getting the loudest last laugh.
Cos apparantly the car im driving is so thick skin that no visible damage was seen. The other car was significant damaged.

Now i wonder if it is done on purpose. Polly they slammed the cars somewhere and couldnt get insurance to pay them, so they drive around like this in order to create an accident to claim!
hmm..

Looking at the bright side, at least this is an awfully minor accident. And minor accident already like that liao, what happen if there is a larger accident? chio!!
At least i got some accident experience points...

And then father was beside me all the time. He so cool lah, didnt huang. Cos he just stand down there and tell the other driver that 'this is small case, nothing one'.
It was exactly this attitude of his that almost caused my blood pressure to rise and explode during the time we were alone in china. Such situation we are suppose to display certain anxiety but he can just behave so indifferent. Nonetheless, it is just so right for him to use it on others.

REally, i got so much to learn.

Catching the falling leaves ...[11:02 PM]

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