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Thursday, August 13, 2009
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ITs a weird feeling.
Meeting friends you thought you can get along with but it just feel as if there is a barrier in between.

This feeling is there when i came back from canada, upon meeting my batch of coursemates. IT just feel different being with most of them. Doesn't feel the click anymore.

Its the same for the juniors i am joining for my remaining yr 2 course.
It was just 1 yr ago that i felt that i can blend in with them quite well.
Now, it just feel awkward.
Well, i'm afterall their senior.

This leads me to feel that i often take the relationship i have forgranted.
When a good relationship is there, it will always stick this way.
Just like how it is with my secondary school, ajc friends.
I always assumed the relationship we have will remain the same even if we didnt meet for a long time and will definitely pick up from there when we meet again.

But now, when we get to meet more people, i guess we tend to forget how we treat others when we didnt meet up for a long time.
Or perhaps, the relationship wasn't that strong to begin with.
That was why we can click easily in the beginning but it fizzle out after sometime.

Therefore, it is important for us to maintain relationship with friends if time permits.

I've met up with kaijie and jiandong today for a start.
Dont think i have anyone else in mind after that..


Catching the falling leaves ...[9:07 PM]
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